Saturday, June 9, 2012

Garage Sale Reflections

I've never been a big garage-saler.  For a while I did go to them because I was in the "acquisition" stage--kids' clothes, toys, books, games etc.  It was a good way to get some great deals on classic items and try out new ones without a huge investment.  I had some great hits, but also some definite misses.  Now I rarely go to them, because not only is it a nightmare dragging kids along, I'm not usually looking for anything in particular and would just end up buying things I didn't know I thought I needed prior to walking up the driveway.

This year, however, I held my own first ever garage sale June 8 & 9 during the Waverly city-wide sales.  It is something that has been on my life bucket list.  Whenever I do go to garage sales my business mind thinks it would be so much fun to have one despite all the warnings from family and friends about how much work it is.  It turns out I was right and they were right. :o)
Up until this point I didn't think I had enough stuff to make it worth it to do my own sale (I've occasionally stuck some stuff on other people's sales).  At the beginning of this year, though, I finally reached a point where I felt like I was able to start letting go of lots of things I had never been able to before.  I was inspired by the 52-Week Organized Home challenge and further encouraged by the discussions at Mom's Morning Out based on the book Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids.  Not to mention my minimalist, clutter-free husband. ;o)

I had already been systematically purging my own wardrobe, but I started focusing on other rooms in the house.  I would collect a box here and there and start stacking them up in the basement or attic.  As the garage sale date got closer, I stepped up my efforts and started tackling things like toys and books, as well as opening boxes that were still sealed from our move almost three years ago.  I was amazed at how many boxes and bags and loads of stuff I hauled out of our house and into the garage.  And I didn't even have any kids' clothes or real "baby" stuff on the sale!  I did invite a friend from Waverly to join me, and she had some girls' clothes as well as other misc. items to sell.  We also did a bake sale/lemonade stand as an adoption fundraiser for them as they wait for a referral from Poland and raised $150!  (I had been stashing away extra loaves of quick breads and muffins in the freezer for two months in preparation--including several rounds of Amish Friendship Bread in all sorts of flavor combinations.)

Below are pictures when everything was set up (minus a few early sales that I'll discuss later).  The thing that embarrassed/shocked me most is the entire 8' table filled with nothing but picture frames.  I emptied three boxes of them dating back to high school & college.  Our current house just doesn't have as many places to set up frames and I rarely print pictures anyway.  So out they went and at least half of them sold!


Here are some reflections on the whole garage sale experience:
  • It is a LOT of work.  As mentioned before, I started collecting stuff at the beginning of the year but put in some intense hours the last two weeks.  It took most of three days to get everything set up and organized in the garage as well as making signs.  Then there were the sale days themselves.  I had pretty much checked out from everything else in life during that time, so it has taken me a week to recover and get [somewhat] caught up again (which is why this post is actually being written a week later).
  • It affects the rest of the family.  Austin was not excited about the whole idea at all, but really stepped up to help out with the kids and around the house, including laundry and cleaning.  He & Emily even followed a recipe to make supper on Thursday night.  I'm sure that was a bonding experience! :o)  It also meant that I did not spend as much time with the kids as I usually do.  I could tell this affected Emily somewhat through her behavior.  I also felt guilty about the fact it has been perfect summer weather, and I have yet to take the kids to the public swimming pool or much of anywhere else.  However, after thinking about it, what did the kids do during that time?  They didn't have any screen time because I was in a stand-off with Emily all week about picking up her room (probably brought on by the lack of attention).  She held out for five days until video/popcorn night on Saturday.  Then after some tears and some help she finally got a passing grade.  Instead, they spent hours playing outside on the play set and in the sandbox, climbing bushes, playing in the kiddie pool and water table on the deck, riding around the driveway, playing with toys they hadn't seen in a while thanks to cleaning out the toy closet and countless hours rearranging wooden train tracks for the new Thomas, Percy & James engines Lincoln bought with his birthday money.  So what do I have to feel guilty about?  After all, isn't that what a childhood summer should look like anyway?!?
  • Never underestimate the aggressiveness of early shoppers.  I made a rookie mistake and set out my signs on the main roads in town at noon on Thursday even though I wasn't officially opening until Friday afternoon.  I have decided that putting out garage sale signs is the equivalent of turning on your porch light at night.  Something just sucks them in!  I had two shoppers that walked right up and started looking around on Thursday afternoon while I was still trying to set up.  One lady was a professional picker who resells on eBay and has lots of her own garage sales.  She was really nice.  The other was a foreign couple that started grabbing things out of bags and boxes and tried to dicker with me on absolutely everything, including the grand total.  They totally got me flustered to the point where they actually drove me inside and I was afraid to go back out and open my garage door even though it was 85 degrees in there and I still had a lot of setting up to do.  The first lady recognized the infamous couple and debriefed me after they left.  Now I know better!  I was also baffled by three different vehicles that pulled up on the driveway and people got out after 7:00pm on Thursday when the garage door was closed, everyone was in the house and the 3'x5' cardboard sign in the front yard clearly stated the hours.
  • Garage sales bring interesting people.  There is a whole sub-culture of die-hard garage-salers, including the people mentioned above.  There are also a lot of nice families and fun friends who stop by.  The neatest people were two cousins of the Carver family who built our house in 1948.  The brother & sister arrived 20 minutes apart at the end of the sale on Saturday.  They grew up a couple blocks away (one still lives there) and spent hours in our house and yard growing up.  I gave them tours of the inside of the house and heard lots of great stories and memories.  I love hearing things like that, so it was one of my favorite parts of the whole experience.  
  • People value things differently.  I know that's a "duh" statement, but a garage sale is a fascinating study in this fact.  When my friend & I were setting up we were asking each other pricing advice.  Even though we had similar tastes, sometimes we came up with very different answers.  One item we each had on the sale was virtually identical.  I had priced it at $3 and she at $.25.  I ended up changing both to $1 and sold them both to one of the first buyers.  There are also always a couple items you laugh about putting on the sale and joke about who would actually buy them.  My two things were snatched up by the professional picker on Thursday afternoon.  She LOVED them.  I probably could have sold them both to her for $10 rather than the $1.25 I think she actually paid.  Maybe I need to watch more episodes of Antique Roadshow?!?
  • Garage sales are exhausting in every way (at least for me).  It's no surprise it's physically exhausting to put on a sale.  It's mentally exhausting trying to decide prices.  My business mind gets all caught up trying to guess the market value and cringes when it appears I could have gotten a lot more for an item (like above).  Although I was eager to purge and rid the house of clutter and unused items, it was still somewhat emotional to see some of the items go.  It took several days (and nights) to process some of it afterward.
  • Kids' stuff sells, adult clothing doesn't.  I had three card tables of kids' toys & games plus several larger ride-on toys.  I had half a table left after the first night.  My friend went home Friday night and came back Saturday morning with a new set of inventory from her basement.  She sold a lot of girls' clothes and almost all my other kid-related stuff also sold including almost every book.  I had one long table and a long rod of hanging adult clothing as a result of an intense year-long purge of my wardrobe (at least five large bags worth).  I think I sold 4 tops and 6 bottoms.  However, I counted all the remaining items before taking them to the donation center and the tax deduction will be worth more to me than I probably would have made if I had actually sold the items.  I itemized a few of the other larger obvious items but just let the rest go.  The key is keeping your non-cash donation under $500 so you don't have to fill out a separate tax form. ;o)
  • If you're priced to sell, things will sell.  I tried very hard to be priced to sell rather than trying to maximize profit.  I must have done a pretty good job because things flew off the tables.  I think half the stuff was literally gone by the time I officially "opened" at 4:00pm (I had opened the garage door at 3:00pm).  I also had several people comment on my reasonable prices (including the picker on Thursday).  It helped that the weather was perfect, too. :o)  Although my total dollar sales weren't exceptionally high, it was great for what I had and how it was priced.  It also covered the cost of the new digital camera & accessories I had already purchased this spring. :o)  
So will I do it again or did I get it out of my system?  It depends.  My initial reaction was that I would consider doing one more when I'm ready to get rid of all my baby gear and kids' clothes (I'm still loaning out a lot of it to friends and family).  Otherwise it's more work than it's worth.  However, I can see how people get the bug and do it over and over.  I had thought I had really purged my house to a point I wouldn't have enough stuff to make it worth it.  However, in the past week I've run across lots of things I'm kicking myself for not setting out because I know they would have sold.  So the big question is, do I start collecting items again or do I start making weekly trips to the donation center?  We'll see...


Monday, June 4, 2012

T-ball fans

Grandpa & Grandma Lorenzen drove all the way from Waukee to watch Emily's T-ball game and take us out for supper at McDonald's afterward.  It was another beautiful night, and Emily did a great job.  Lincoln spent the entire time "digging" in the sand under the bleachers and never even asked to go to the playground.  Thanks for coming, Grandpa & Grandma!



Thursday, May 31, 2012

May 2012 videos

Block towers

I spent most of the afternoon sorting through the toy closet upstairs in preparation for the garage sale I'm having next weekend.  Since it was a chilly, rainy day, this resulted in the re-discovery of several toys that haven't been played with in some time.

Emily had a lot of fun with the foam building blocks.  Her first creation was inspired by the Magic Tree House book we're currently reading, Night of the New Magicians, which takes place during the 1889 Paris World's Fair.  I think it's a pretty good Eiffel Tower!


That was followed by lots of different towers, castles and "people" with accessories, and Lincoln begging Emily to let him knock them all down. ;o)

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

2012 Summer Bucket List

I have been meaning to make our summer bucket list ever since Emily finished preschool.  We finally got around to doing it today after taking down some of Lincoln's birthday posters.  Here is what it looked like after my brainstorming session with a little bit of input from Emily...



Here's what it looked like after Emily had her own brainstorming session... 


We better get busy!

5 years + 7 months


Emily's big thing this month (other than everything birthday related), has been Hull-London.  I think it came about when I mentioned that when I studied abroad for a semester in college I went to school in the town of Hull, England and visited London.  Since then, everything has been about what Hull-Londoners do, eat, say, think, etc.  They have their own language, cuisine (a Hull-London taco is a shell with whatever you want in it) and territory.  In fact, she took down the large U.S. map hanging up in the basement and used a purple marker to indicate where Hull-London is located.  Apparently, it covers most of Appalachia, specifically West Virginia.  So she has moved on from specific imaginary friends to entire cultures.

Her imaginary friends are still around, though.  I mentioned in last month's post about her weird pronunciation of "Kaithlyn".  I soon discovered that she had read ahead in the Magic Tree House books where a new character was introduced named Kathleen.  Since Emily had never heard it pronounced out loud, she thought it was "Kaith-lyn".  She hasn't mentioned much about that particular friend since.  It's mostly just her twin sister, Karen.

Emily is pretty proud that she has figured out how to whistle.  It's not very loud, but still better than I've ever been able to do!  She is also trying to be a grown up and sleeping with less lights on.  This may seem trivial since she usually has her closet light, a night light and often also falls asleep with her reading lamp on.  However, it's a big step for her.

Emily has also displayed an intense dislike of bugs in the house.  She yells whenever she discovers a bug in the bathtub, which is quite often.  She freaked out when she spotted a spider on her closet door frame one night.  She also screamed about a grasshopper in the bathroom when it turned out to be a tiny little lacewing on the wall.

She has also declared Wednesday's to be her "running day".  Since school is now out for the summer, she begged to go to the high school track in full running gear.  It was a beautiful day today, and the sprinklers were running, too.  Emily only actually made it around the track twice and only ran about 200m of it.  She & Lincoln spent more time climbing the bleachers. :o)


Monday, May 28, 2012

Rocks, a storm and guardian angels

We spent the rest of Memorial Day Weekend at my parents' house.  One of the fun things the kids & I did was take the Kubota down to the creek to throw rocks.  I can't tell you how many rocks I chucked from the driveway above into this creek during my childhood!  It's still fun as a grown-up. :o)


We heard the rumbling thunder as we emptied our bowls and made it back to the house just as it started pouring.  It turned out to be a stormy night.  After supper a 70 mph gust front with heavy rain and hail blew through.  The sirens went off, so we spent some quality time playing in the basement.



There were a lot of trees down around the farm and in town.  It took 20 min. for my dad to find a way to bring my grandma home, and she only lives six blocks away.  My parents had a piece of fascia ripped off the house and wrapped around a tree.   Everyone chipped in to clean up the next day.  The kids helped load the Kubota with sticks and rode along to haul away larger branches.


Memorial Day turned out to be beautiful.  After the traditional pancake breakfast at my home church, we attended the memorial service at the cemetery.  My Grandpa Vander Kooi, a WWII vet and POW, was able to come on the trolley from the nursing home.  Emily was very interested in reading names on gravestones, so I showed her many family sites. 

After a big lunch, we packed up tired kids and headed home.  About 40 miles from my parents' house the kids & I had dozed off and all of the sudden, Austin did, too.  We ended up crossing the center line, driving half in the ditch/half on the opposite shoulder, hopping a culvert and landing in the parking lot of a vet clinic.  By the grace of God, no one was hurt except for a little mark where Emily had fallen asleep on her seatbelt.  After washing all the mud and grass out of the wheels, the van was running fine except for the A/C not working.  There was some damage to the front bumper and some other nicks and scrapes on the van, but nothing really serious.  We were able to drive the rest of the way home and the kids even slept a good bit during the drive.  There are a thousand worse scenarios that could of happened.  We thank God for the guardian angels watching over us! 

Saturday, May 26, 2012

60th Anniversary

Austin's Grandpa & Grandma Lorenzen marked their 60th wedding anniversary on May 25, so a large chunk of the family spent the day together with them on Saturday.  It was a fun day of food, visiting and lots of cousin time.  It was especially good because Austin's grandpa has Alzheimer's and has been declining rapidly in recent months.

We attempted to take family pictures at the end during the hottest, most humid part of the day, but with the new Hi-speed burst function on my camera and sorting through over 250 snapshots, we got a few good ones.
 
The Lorenzen family
Austin's parents with all the grandkids (first picture ever no one was crying)
Great-grandchildren
Four generations of Lorenzens.

With Austin's grandparents.  Lincoln was done and Emily was getting silly.



Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Climbing bushes

One of the kids' favorite activities in the back yard is climbing bushes (or "trees" as they sometimes refer to them).  There is line of large Amur Maple bushes that are probably 65 years old.  After cutting out a lot of dead stuff, there are a few nice branches for stepping on.  There is one in particular that is perfect for climbing.  The kids often fight over it and Lincoln sometimes has to be rescued from it.  Today Emily "moved in" with a variety of items from the tub of water toys.



Sunday, May 20, 2012

Lincoln's party

We had the grandparents over for Lincoln's birthday on Sunday.  He got a big tractor and wagon from Grandpa & Grandma Boote.  It killed Grandpa that the tractor was green, but it was the most kid-friendly one they found.  Lincoln loved it regardless of the color.


Grandpa & Grandma Lorenzen brought some new trucks and the Elefun game.  Both kids loved it!


 He also got a big new ball and a beautiful kite book from cousins.


I did myself a favor and ordered a cake from the Fareway bakery.  It had two nice plastic construction toys digging up crushed Oreo cookies.  Emily had picked out a "digger" theme for Lincoln months ago.  Birthdaydirect.com came through with <48 hour standard shipping for paper supplies when none of the stores I had gone to carried anything but licensed character products.

I didn't get a clear picture of Lincoln blowing out his candles, but there is a video of him singing "Happy Birthday" to himself along with everyone else in the May play list.  Lincoln LOVED the toys on top of the cake.  So much so, he decided to eat his cake using his new equipment.  And I let him because it was his birthday. :o)  As expected, in the end very little cake was actually consumed.  Just a lot of frosting.  But he had a lot of fun!





It was actually a bit chilly, but we enjoyed being outside.  Here are three generations of Lorenzen men hanging out on the tailgate.  Thanks to the grandparents for a memorable day!